What Our Clients Say

What Our Clients Say

At Language 4 Lovers, the greatest measure of success comes from the stories and experiences of the couples we work with. These are real words from real people who have experienced firsthand how Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and our personalized coaching approach can transform relationships.

Breaking down the applications — relationships, social change, etc. — and flushing each out worked well. The meditations added depth, trust, and peace. I enjoyed the stories of applications of NVC and the examples of how one can “speak the language.”

The specifics are very helpful. I was satisfied with the presentation in general and specifically I appreciated all the handouts. Pan’s flexibility and vulnerability and his willingness to bring forward the full meaning and value of NVC (world-changing) with serious lightness!

I felt quite comfortable and connected. Pan contributed to that by encouraging participation by all actively and compassionately, and also not letting anyone’s “stories” dominate the group deftly.

C.P.

Pan’s presence, vulnerability, heart, and knowledge of the NVC process helped me to understand at my own deep heart level so that I have a good beginning understanding.

My needs were met through lots of practice. My need for connection was met — a group of strangers became a community.

Pan’s presence models connection. I leave feeling blessed and hopeful for the work I am engaged in.

A.H.

The “Stages of Relationship” in Jackal and Giraffe was new and useful. Also, I felt Pan demonstrated respect, love, and connection with each person attending.

Brought to the forefront my needs as a man. Helped me to be both a better listener and more compassionate. Opened up my eyes to the possibility of a very happy and fulfilling life.

Pan knows the material, gives examples, and responds well to questions — through inquiry, more options, and kindness.

He addressed participants by name, shared some personal material, and role-played with participants. Helpful in getting in touch with my heart! Enjoyed the stages of intimacy!

Pan’s ability to connect with my heart and to give me the freedom to feel and to discover my needs was invaluable. Totally safe and secure — gave empathy, not judging. Shared self and had courage to be vulnerable.

E.T.

The process he communicated through group interactions as well as lecture. The gift Pan brought was his unique ability to communicate joy when someone showed an understanding.



There were moments of intense discomfort. In some ways, I feel my trainer allowed me to remain uncomfortable. I don’t know if my needs were really clear to me.

I need to work on identifying my own needs.

M.I.